We grow up with the belief that by the time we’re 30, everything will be organized, planned, and understood. To be honest, many of us are still in the midst of figuring things out, still learning, still putting the pieces together. 

“Having it all together” is merely a myth we’ve been led to believe. This decade isn’t about perfecting life—it’s about welcoming the unforeseen, those unrefined twists and turns that mold us in unexpected ways. Let go of the pressure to be impeccable; it’s within the chaos that you’ll discover the most genuine aspects of yourself. 

I am incredibly thankful for the lessons my 30s have taught me thus far. I appreciate the chance to step back from the relentless hustle and fully engage in life’s moments, treasuring each one. I’m ticking off my bucket list, spreading love, and sprinkling my unique magic wherever I go, while still nurturing and loving myself more.

Last week, during my birthday dinner, I understood and appreciated every individual present. I truly felt loved and valued like never before. I’m learning that I am enough and what is meant for me won’t pass me by. Here’s to another journey around the sun and many more to come! 

Happy Turkey Day Beautiful people.