Have you ever looked at your social media followers list and thought, “Why am I still letting this person watch my life?” That was me not too long ago. I realized I was giving access to people who no longer had a place in my life—people who weren’t clapping for me, weren’t supporting me, and honestly didn’t deserve front-row seats to my journey. So, I made the decision to change that. Continue reading From Friends to Followers to Deleted
This season, I decided to do something special and launch the Sis, Have a Cocktail: Cowgirl Edition. And listen… the first drink out the gate is giving southern sass with a fiery twist—meet the Cowgirl Flame. Now, let me tell y’all….I partnered with Red Hazel, a bold and beautiful Black-owned spiced whiskey brand, to bring the ultimate cocktail experience to the girls who love a good drink. This was actually … Continue reading Boots on the Ground, New Cocktails Coming Your Way!
Fall is finally here, and you know what that means….it’s time for cozy vibes, bold flavors, and cocktails with a little extra kick. This season, I decided to do something special and launch the Sis, Have a Cocktail: Cowgirl Edition. And listen… the first drink out the gate is giving southern sass with a fiery twist…meet the Cowgirl Flame. Now, let me tell y’all, I partnered with Red Hazel, a bold and … Continue reading Sis, Have a Cocktail: Cowgirl Edition
There’s something incredibly full circle about returning to the very thing that once made you feel alive. For me, that thing has always been writing. Not just articles, columns, or newsletters, but stories. Fiction rooted in real experiences. Storytelling that reflects the world around us, even when it’s messy, complicated, hilarious, and far from perfect. And if I’m being honest… I stepped away from it. It’s … Continue reading Returning to My Author Roots: Why Now Is the Perfect Time to Step Back Into My Purpose
Listen… I don’t know who needs to hear this, but summer is basically over. Like, I blinked in June, sipped a cute cocktail in July, and somehow August pulled up like, “Hey girl, pack it up.” But before we get sad and start pretending pumpkin spice is a personality trait, let’s have a little debrief, because this summer? This Hot Girl Summa was different. If you’ve been keeping … Continue reading Hot Girl Summa Was Real, Now I’m Checking Out
Let’s have a little chat, woman to woman.You ever been in a room, vibing, looking good, speaking facts, minding your business, and you notice him shrinking? His energy shifts. He goes quiet. He looks uncomfortable. And somehow, you’re the one left wondering, Did I say too much? Was I doing too much? Should I have dialed it back a little? Nah, sis. You were doing exactly what you … Continue reading Sis, He’s Not Intimidated, He’s Unprepared. Keep Shining Anyway
I told y’all it was a hot girl summa, and this hot girl is outside! This week, I did something I never thought I’d do: I played pickleball for the first time, and I actually loved it. Listen, when I said I was going to make this summer meaningful, I really meant it. This season is all about stepping out of my comfort zone, trying new things, … Continue reading Serving Looks & Confidence: My First Time Playing Pickleball in a Pleated Skirt
Hey Sis! Can you believe we’re already halfway through summer? If you’re anything like me, you’re wondering how June flew by in a blink and why it feels like the sun is personally attacking us with this extreme heat. Hydration is a must, obviously! So yes, keep that cute water bottle close but, we deserve a lil’ something extra to make these long, sweaty days feel … Continue reading 4 Cocktails to Keep You Cool, Cute & Outside This Summer
If you scroll your timeline long enough, you’ll see soft life everywhere. #SoftLife is trending for a reason. But for us millennial Black women? Choosing softness is more than a cute aesthetic. It’s a radical act of self-preservation. We grew up being told we had to be strong. Strong for our families, strong at work, strong when the world disrespects us. The Strong Black Woman trope is … Continue reading Sis, You Deserve a Soft Life Here’s How to Live It Now
Okay, sis. Be honest, when was the last time you actually paused? Like, truly unplugged from the daily chaos, turned off the notifications, put yourself on Do Not Disturb and took a real, soul-refreshing reset? If you’re squirming in your seat right now, don’t feel bad. You’re not alone. So many of us millennial women have spent the first half of this year pushing through careers, side hustles, friend … Continue reading Rest, Reclaim, Repeat: How to Reset Your Summer & Your Sanity
