It’s My Birthday

We grow up with the belief that by the time we’re 30, everything will be organized, planned, and understood. To be honest, many of us are still in the midst of figuring things out, still learning, still putting the pieces together.  “Having it all together” is merely a myth we’ve been led to believe. This decade isn’t about perfecting life—it’s about welcoming the unforeseen, those … Continue reading It’s My Birthday

The Pressure Is On

Women in their early thirties frequently encounter numerous pressures originating from personal, societal, and cultural expectations. Before reaching the age of 30, I aimed to make certain adjustments to align myself with what I believed I deserved and desired, only to realize that I was striving to meet external societal and cultural standards. Despite these changes being personal, I still experience stress in several areas. … Continue reading The Pressure Is On

Sis, What You Sippin?

Sis, its about that time. As we began to prepare for fall break you can look forward to kicking off the holiday cheer with delightful cocktails! This month, embrace fall with these festive drinks. Even in warmer climates, these concoctions will infuse your spirit with holiday vibes. The Spiced Fall Sangria, infused with seasonal fruits and spices in your favorite white wine, offers cozy autumn … Continue reading Sis, What You Sippin?

‘Harlem’ Season 3 Returns in January 2025

Sis, we’ve been eagerly waiting for the release day, and it’s finally arrived. Camille, Tye, Quinn, and Angie are gracing our screens once more. The Prime Video comedy “Harlem” is back for its third season on January 23, promising even more drama, laughter, and pivotal choices for our beloved Harlem quartet. Created by Tracy Oliver, Harlem continues to depict the intricacies of Black womanhood with … Continue reading ‘Harlem’ Season 3 Returns in January 2025

Miracle Watts Said She Wanted Marriage and Partner Tyler Lepley Put A Ring On It

In today’s society, it’s often accepted to opt for casual relationships instead of pursuing marriage, which can make it challenging for women to envision getting married. Many hesitate to voice their desire for matrimony, but Miracle Watts was an exception. Miracle and Tyler crossed paths on the set of ‘P-Valley’ and began their relationship in 2021, later celebrating the arrival of their son in September … Continue reading Miracle Watts Said She Wanted Marriage and Partner Tyler Lepley Put A Ring On It

Are You a Girl’s Girl?

Recently, I’ve noticed a lot of women on social platforms proclaiming their identity as a “girl’s girl”. This phrase has gained a lot of traction, and I believe it’s crucial to resonate with that vibe and surround oneself with other women who embody the same spirit. As I’ve embraced my soft girl phase and advocated for others to explore their feminine side, I’ve come to … Continue reading Are You a Girl’s Girl?

Talk To My Scale Cocktail

Meshia’s curation of the first #ThirstTrapThursday event in 2024 has left me speechless. The level of hospitality extended to me and my friends was truly remarkable. I am indebted to her for setting such high standards and raising the bar for me. It has made me realize that I deserve nothing less when I am out in public. When others expect greatness from you, it … Continue reading Talk To My Scale Cocktail

The Struggle to Forgive Myself

I willingly found myself in a new and unfamiliar situation, disregarding the cautionary signs and exposing myself to greater vulnerability. Despite being pursued, I also found myself chasing after someone with hidden agendas. Some individuals may seek validation by actively pursuing others, finding temporary satisfaction in their accomplishments. In life, it is not uncommon to come across situations that push us out of our comfort … Continue reading The Struggle to Forgive Myself