Get Out of Survival Mode and Live a Softer Life

Living in survival mode cultivates resilience, defensiveness, and self-reliance can be key skills during tough times. Shifting towards gentleness involves letting go of entrenched behaviors and embracing new viewpoints. Although often confused with vulnerability, softness truly embodies serenity, warmth, and compassion, especially after stressful periods. High stress levels boost alertness and independence, potentially disrupting harmonious relationships and inner peace. Embracing gentleness means acknowledging vulnerability as … Continue reading Get Out of Survival Mode and Live a Softer Life

Let’s Take A Softer Approach for 2025

Sis, it’s just a few hours into the new year and I’m bursting with excitement for all that I deserve and what’s on its way. While I’m all in for personal development and setting goals, I’ve been pondering the pressure we put on ourselves to overachieve in the spirit of a fresh start. Let’s face it, the new year can sometimes feel less like a … Continue reading Let’s Take A Softer Approach for 2025

It’s My Birthday

We grow up with the belief that by the time we’re 30, everything will be organized, planned, and understood. To be honest, many of us are still in the midst of figuring things out, still learning, still putting the pieces together.  “Having it all together” is merely a myth we’ve been led to believe. This decade isn’t about perfecting life—it’s about welcoming the unforeseen, those … Continue reading It’s My Birthday

Throw Those Panties Away

When was the last time you threw out your old underwear? From playful shorts to classic briefs, a woman’s underwear is integral to her everyday routine. It ensures her comfort and allows her to express herself when it’s time to get intimate. However, you might be holding onto some underwear longer than advisable. While there isn’t a specific timeframe for discarding old underwear, I suggest … Continue reading Throw Those Panties Away

The Pressure Is On

Women in their early thirties frequently encounter numerous pressures originating from personal, societal, and cultural expectations. Before reaching the age of 30, I aimed to make certain adjustments to align myself with what I believed I deserved and desired, only to realize that I was striving to meet external societal and cultural standards. Despite these changes being personal, I still experience stress in several areas. … Continue reading The Pressure Is On

Sis, What You Sippin?

Sis, its about that time. As we began to prepare for fall break you can look forward to kicking off the holiday cheer with delightful cocktails! This month, embrace fall with these festive drinks. Even in warmer climates, these concoctions will infuse your spirit with holiday vibes. The Spiced Fall Sangria, infused with seasonal fruits and spices in your favorite white wine, offers cozy autumn … Continue reading Sis, What You Sippin?

‘Harlem’ Season 3 Returns in January 2025

Sis, we’ve been eagerly waiting for the release day, and it’s finally arrived. Camille, Tye, Quinn, and Angie are gracing our screens once more. The Prime Video comedy “Harlem” is back for its third season on January 23, promising even more drama, laughter, and pivotal choices for our beloved Harlem quartet. Created by Tracy Oliver, Harlem continues to depict the intricacies of Black womanhood with … Continue reading ‘Harlem’ Season 3 Returns in January 2025

Miracle Watts Said She Wanted Marriage and Partner Tyler Lepley Put A Ring On It

In today’s society, it’s often accepted to opt for casual relationships instead of pursuing marriage, which can make it challenging for women to envision getting married. Many hesitate to voice their desire for matrimony, but Miracle Watts was an exception. Miracle and Tyler crossed paths on the set of ‘P-Valley’ and began their relationship in 2021, later celebrating the arrival of their son in September … Continue reading Miracle Watts Said She Wanted Marriage and Partner Tyler Lepley Put A Ring On It

Are You a Girl’s Girl?

Recently, I’ve noticed a lot of women on social platforms proclaiming their identity as a “girl’s girl”. This phrase has gained a lot of traction, and I believe it’s crucial to resonate with that vibe and surround oneself with other women who embody the same spirit. As I’ve embraced my soft girl phase and advocated for others to explore their feminine side, I’ve come to … Continue reading Are You a Girl’s Girl?

Ways to Make Him Want You Badly

Is it just me who is trying to navigate the ever-evolving dating landscape? The complexities of dating as a millennial woman have been evident for some time now. Often, societal norms, family expectations, and peer influences shape our values. My choices have been shaped by my personal encounters. Spending a significant period alone and single has allowed me to understand the dating norms better and … Continue reading Ways to Make Him Want You Badly