What Are You Still Entertaining That’s Beneath the Woman You’ve Become?
Let’s get real for a second.
You’ve done the inner work. You’ve healed, unlearned, relearned, and evolved. You’ve curated a life that reflects your values, your boundaries, and your bold vision for the future. So why are you still entertaining things (and people) that don’t align with the woman you are right now?
The truth is, being a high-value woman isn’t just about glowing skin, booked calendars, and matching loungewear sets (although, yes please to all of the above). It’s about protecting your peace, honoring your growth, and walking away from anything that doesn’t elevate you.
Here’s a list of things you should absolutely stop entertaining—immediately:
1. Toxic Relationships
If it costs your peace, it’s too expensive. Whether it’s a situationship with no direction or a friendship that feels more draining than empowering—it’s time to release it. You deserve safe, mutual, and meaningful connections.
2. People Who Don’t Respect Your Boundaries
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. If someone continuously crosses lines you’ve clearly drawn, it’s not a misunderstanding—it’s a choice. Stop explaining your standards to people who are committed to misunderstanding them.
3. Settling Just to Say You Have Something
A lukewarm job. A halfway-loyal partner. An inauthentic lifestyle. Nah. You’ve come too far to settle for “meh” just to check a box. Choose alignment over aesthetics every time.
4. Situations That Don’t Reciprocate Your Energy
You’re not an emotional ATM. Stop giving your all to people, projects, and partnerships that pour nothing back into you. Real recognize real—and so does reciprocity.
5. The Fear of Being Alone
Loneliness is loud, but settling is louder. Don’t let fear push you into places you’ve outgrown. Being alone isn’t a punishment—it’s often the reset you didn’t know you needed.
6. Negative Self-Talk
You can’t be your own bully and your own best friend. That voice in your head? Check her. Reframe the narrative. Speak to yourself like someone you love—because you are someone worth loving.
7. Unnecessary Drama
If they’re not paying your bills or adding peace to your life, why are you letting them live rent-free in your head? Decline the invite to the chaos. Stay booked and unbothered.
8. Procrastination Disguised as “Planning”
You don’t need another mood board—you need movement. Perfection is cute, but progress is powerful. Stop overthinking and start executing.
9. People Who Dim Your Light
If you have to shrink to make someone comfortable, it’s not your circle—it’s a cage. Shine anyway.
10. Comfort Zones
That version of you that feels “safe” is not the version that will get you to the next level. Growth requires risk, faith, and a little audacity. Be brave enough to evolve.
Sis, this season is about discernment.
You are no longer entertaining distractions, detours, or dead ends. The woman you are becoming doesn’t beg, chase, or compromise her worth. She attracts. She decides. She knows.
So ask yourself:
What am I still saying yes to that my future self would’ve already walked away from?
It’s time to start moving like you know exactly who you are
