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Sis, You Deserve a Soft Life Here’s How to Live It Now

If you scroll your timeline long enough, you’ll see soft life everywhere. #SoftLife is trending for a reason. But for us millennial Black women? Choosing softness is more than a cute aesthetic. It’s a radical act of self-preservation. We grew up being told we had to be strong. Strong for our families, strong at work, strong when the world disrespects us. The Strong Black Woman trope is … Continue reading Sis, You Deserve a Soft Life Here’s How to Live It Now

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Get Out of Survival Mode and Live a Softer Life

Living in survival mode cultivates resilience, defensiveness, and self-reliance can be key skills during tough times. Shifting towards gentleness involves letting go of entrenched behaviors and embracing new viewpoints. Although often confused with vulnerability, softness truly embodies serenity, warmth, and compassion, especially after stressful periods. High stress levels boost alertness and independence, potentially disrupting harmonious relationships and inner peace. Embracing gentleness means acknowledging vulnerability as … Continue reading Get Out of Survival Mode and Live a Softer Life

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Let’s Take A Softer Approach for 2025

Sis, it’s just a few hours into the new year and I’m bursting with excitement for all that I deserve and what’s on its way. While I’m all in for personal development and setting goals, I’ve been pondering the pressure we put on ourselves to overachieve in the spirit of a fresh start. Let’s face it, the new year can sometimes feel less like a … Continue reading Let’s Take A Softer Approach for 2025

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