I don’t think it’s fair that kids get to go to a happy,fun, and exciting place and build a bear! Literally build the bear to their liking. They get to choose the size,color, clothing, accessories, stuffed or unstuffed… I mean the list goes on. So ladies…as an adult shouldn’t we be able to build the perfect man?

Realistically, it can feel nearly impossible to find a person that checks off everything that’s on your list. However, there’s no reason why we can’t fantasize about what the perfect man would be like. For example, most people have a preference in hair color, while others may be looking for someone who makes enough money to support a family. I’m all for supporting the family but you gotta look damn good while doing it!

Just imagine being able to pull up to a fun location, build the perfect man put him in your car and take him home FOREVER!

While we may never find someone who checks all of our boxes, it’s never a bad idea to fantasize about what we’re looking for in a partner. At the same time, it’s also good to evaluate all the things we could let slide. For instance, maybe things that use to seem extremely important may now appear to be a bit childish.

So with that in mind, I’m about to build my man!

So if I could build the perfect man he would be between brown to dark skin complexion.. for example Michael B Jordan complexion to Kofi Siriboe. I’m not really into light skin men.. like at all unless he is really rough around the edges. DO NOT ask me what that means because if you know you know.. While building I’d give him light brown eyes or green. He would have a big nose not too big not too small but fits his face well. Low haircut and a beard baby! Not a Rick Ross or Pastor Troy but ya know a little something something I can play in and keep moisturize for him. Pearly white pretty teeth with dimples on both cheeks.

Five foot ten inches is the height of the average male in many places around the world. However, I prefer mine is at least six foot ya know like most athletes. I love love love athletes. Not because I’m interested in being at games cheering them on or for financial gain but the body! Most of them workout on a regular I’m a sucker for broad shoulders, cut body, and sexy legs with decent looking feet.

My man has to be tatted! I’m cool with him having hidden tattoos but the visible ones I like the most.. such as when they’re on their neck, forearms, hands and legs.

His swag would be sick! he would be versatile. On a chill day he would look good on a date night he would look the bomb and in a suit and tie he would look edible.

If you could build a man right now what are the requirements? Would he resemble your celebrity crush?