What Do Men Really Want?

In modern times, understanding a man’s needs can pose a challenge. This is often due to the fact that men may be hesitant to openly discuss their desires. This reluctance could be influenced by societal norms, struggles with expressing emotions, or simply a fear of vulnerability. As a result, this lack of communication can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and distance in relationships. It is important to note that a man’s expectations go beyond just physical intimacy. There are certain things that men desire from their partners but may not explicitly ask for.

Room to Chase You

Let that man chase you!!! I told y’all this years ago. You will listen to me one day LOL. In the world of love, women can sometimes unintentionally hinder men from enjoying the thrill of the chase. If you constantly take the lead in making plans and initiating communication, you may be preventing him from pursuing you naturally. It’s not about playing games with emotions, but rather letting him make a conscious choice to be with you without feeling pressured. Change your mindset to allow the relationship to evolve naturally, and keep living life enthusiastically while navigating the dating scene. Respond to his efforts to move the relationship forward, play your part, but avoid rushing things. If his feelings for you are genuine, the relationship will progress naturally.

Physical Affection

Although most males typically initiate displays of affection with their romantic partners, there are times when they desire for women to reciprocate with more affectionate gestures. This could involve gently caressing the back of his head while he is driving or unwinding, playfully running fingers through his beard, giving kisses on his cheek, resting on his chest and playfully interacting, as well as providing back scratches and kisses, which they particularly enjoy.

Thoughtful Gestures

Most men aren’t used to receiving so it makes a HUGE difference when you do something sweet and thoughtful for them. They love when you help them organize their closets, pick out their outfits, shop for household items, give them a full body massage and cook their favorite meal. Always remember they love to receive just because gifts. As much as men purchase for women they actually love when that energy is reciprocated.

Make the First Move

They might not openly acknowledge it, but they find it appealing when we take the initiative. Ultimately, this act excites them. It instills in them a sense of being desired and valued.

Reassurance

Men, just like women, also desire reassurance in a relationship, but they may struggle with expressing this need. If you’re in a relationship with a man and find yourself frequently questioning his feelings towards you, it’s important to understand that he too wants to provide reassurance and make you feel secure. It’s essential to communicate with your boyfriend about your insecurities and ask for reassurance when needed. Remember, men crave reassurance just as much as women do, so it’s beneficial to offer it to your boyfriend without waiting for him to ask.

Your Support

Support him in his endeavors, in the pursuit of his goals. Every individual has a purpose. Avoid taking control and attempting to lead his journey or doubt his decisions, as this shows a lack of belief in him, leading to feelings of disrespect. Instead, show your support by having faith in his abilities and intelligence to succeed independently. Be present to lend an ear and offer advice when requested. Have confidence in the relationship to allow him the space to focus on his mission, even if it means sacrificing time together. His mission is a vital part of who he is, so refrain from trying to hinder it. Support him just as he should support you in following your aspirations. For a man, there is no greater joy than having a partner who stands by him through thick and thin.

Be Vocal in Bed

They expect you to express yourself and vocalize your desires during intimate moments, rather than staying silent. It’s important to communicate openly as they cannot read your mind. Men prefer direct communication about what you want and how you want it, avoiding the need for guesswork or decoding signals.

Peace of Mind

Sis, be his peace!

Men primarily seek peace and serenity. They long to feel comfortable being their true selves around you. Avoid engaging in power struggles that could lead to his quick departure because of constant criticism or excessive demands.