At this point we all know about love languages and types of love… but how familiar are you with sex languages? Douglas Weiss, a Psychologist and author of the book 5 Sex Languages believes we have the keys to open the doors to sexual pleasure for your partner and from your partner. The Five Sex Languages book is unique, not only to increase sexual pleasure but to increase understanding your partner sexually. As we prepare for Valentine’s Day later this week, let me give you the keys to unlock your sexual pleasure and your partners.

SEX LANGUAGE 1: FUN
The fun sex language person’s pleasure is accentuated when you mix fun with sex. This person is going to enjoy spontaneity, various locations, and creativity during all phases of sex.

SEX LANGUAGE 2: DESIRE
The desire sex language person’s sexuality is heightened if they feel pursued and wanted. They love you planning their sexual time and encounter. Their pleasure is you really wanting them sexually.

SEX LANGUAGE 3: PLEASURE
If your partner’s sex language is pleasure, they will want to learn how to please you. They want to experiment as to what gives the most pleasure during a sex act. Their exploring and being explored takes sex to another level for this person.

SEX LANGUAGE 4: PATIENCE
Slow it down, take your time and a lot of time are some of the mantras of the patience sex language. This person enjoys massages and gentleness before, during and after sex.

SEX LANGUAGE 5: ACCEPTANCE/CELEBRATION
The person who has an acceptance/celebration sex language wants to know you accept and celebrate all who they are. During every phase of sex they want you to appreciate all they are to you, not just their body or sexually. Being valued makes sex more satisfying for this person

Did you already know your sex language? What’s yours? What are ways you plan to find your partners?