Girlfriends are truly priceless companions in life, offering support in tough times and sharing in moments of joy.
However, amidst busy schedules, family commitments, and personal relationships, the bond of sisterhood can sometimes be overlooked. This can be a disappointing experience, having been on both sides of the situation myself.
It Happens, Life Happens…. We Happen!!
I have felt left behind when a friend became engrossed in a new romance, and I have also unintentionally neglected friendships due to being preoccupied with my own life. Friendships provide valuable lessons in social dynamics and self-discovery. Research indicates that maintaining social connections, such as friendships, leads to increased happiness, improved health, and a decreased risk of mental health issues. I strongly believe in nurturing friendships with the same care as romantic relationships. It is important for friends to prioritize each other consistently.
To set an example of a loyal friend, here are some ways to be more present in your friendships.
Check In!
Staying connected with friends can sometimes be challenging, but it’s crucial to show them that you care. One effective way to do this is by scheduling regular meetups. By setting a specific date, both parties are more likely to follow through and spend quality time together. When it comes to long-distance friendships, making use of phone or video calls can achieve the same result. Remember to reach out to your closest friend and make sure they never feel neglected.
Make one-on-one plans
It is often convenient to depend on large group gatherings or events to connect with loved ones. However, the reality is that the most fulfilling moments are those spent with just one other individual. Each friend serves a unique purpose in your life, so it is essential to nurture individual relationships. Set aside time for one-on-one interactions to truly bond with your significant other. Dress up, take photos, and cherish those moments by sharing them on social platforms.
Remember important dates
It is crucial to remember important dates like birthdays in a strong friendship. However, it is equally important to remember other significant events such as wedding anniversaries, job promotions, difficult milestones, and tough times like the death of a loved one or a breakup. Recognizing both the happy and challenging moments in a friend’s life shows your genuine care and support for their well-being. Either way, remember those dates and always help your friend celebrate.
Reciprocate Good Energy and Be Supportive
Our friends often act as our strongest supporters and champions. When we aim for new and exciting goals or face important decisions, we rely on those we hold dear to maintain the motivation needed to reach our dreams. This assistance should be expressed verbally, but it should also be demonstrated through actions. Whether it involves delivering meals and medication to a sick friend or cheering them on as they complete their first marathon, your approval and kindness will greatly strengthen the bonds of friendship. Sometimes, being a friend is simply about being present. In difficult times, advice may not always be necessary; just having someone by your side can provide great comfort. A true friend confirms their support by being there during these crucial moments, especially when you need them the most.
Be Reliable
We have all come across that one f’d up individual. The person who commits to showing up but never does. Or the one who talks about making plans but never follows through. That’s not the type of friend you want to be. You aspire to be a reliable companion, someone who keeps their promises and backs up their words with actions. When you reassure your friend that you’ll be there for them, or that you have everything under control, they should be able to rely on you without hesitation. If this seems difficult, using alarms on your phone could be beneficial.
How do you keep your friendships thriving? Share your advice in the comments below.
