We are now at the start of “cuffing season.” Urban Dictionary defines “cuffing” as the moment when “people who would normally rather be single or promiscuous find themselves, along with the rest of the world, desiring to be tied down by a serious relationship.” In other words cuffing season is the act of trying to be boo’d up! Unfortunately, you’re probably single just like me LOL. Your uncuffed behind should join me on surviving during this season!

Focus on Being Productive

Use this time to focus on any goals you’ve set out to accomplish. A new year is a new chance to start over right? Well get a head start on your New Year’s Resolutions. It’s not too early… January will be here before you know it!

Spend Time with Your Besties

Call up your squad and plan some really cool activities! They’ll most likely won’t turn you down if they’re single too. Now is the perfect time to start planning holiday parties. Take the holidays as an opportunity to reconnect with old friends, have a blast, and soak up every moment.

Protect Your Energy and Space

You may have options.. HOWEVER remain focused because these n***** are coming with the bulls***…. They are coming with text messages and pull ups trying to Netflix and Chill! The reality of it is they need a warm place to stay. Tell him to find a bridge or go to his mama house! Better yet tell him to call you when the weather change maybe you will let him in!

These are difficult times for both men and women but you have to stand firm on protecting your energy and peace. Just a little FYI, since our bodies (both men and women) produce more testosterone during the fall, that makes us hornier! That’s the exact reason why we give in. NEXT!!!