Returning to My Author Roots: Why Now Is the Perfect Time to Step Back Into My Purpose

There’s something incredibly full circle about returning to the very thing that once made you feel alive. For me, that thing has always been writing. Not just articles, columns, or newsletters, but stories. Fiction rooted in real experiences. Storytelling that reflects the world around us, even when it’s messy, complicated, hilarious, and far from perfect. And if I’m being honest… I stepped away from it. It’s … Continue reading Returning to My Author Roots: Why Now Is the Perfect Time to Step Back Into My Purpose

Nicole Sade'August 18, 2025

I’m Not Ready to Date, I Have Attachment Issues

I’m convinced emotional and physical baggage makes dating more challenging and complicated when you’re in your mid-20s and 30s. Remember when I told you I was single and wasn’t looking to mingle? Well, I had a change of heart. Recently, I found myself wanting to date. I thought I was missing something and that something was a romantic relationship. Therefore, I open myself up to … Continue reading I’m Not Ready to Date, I Have Attachment Issues

Nicole Sade'October 15, 2023October 16, 20231 Comment

Hit It and Quit It List?

Although it can be a tricky subject… at what point should you disclose your sexual history to your partner? Or should you? Remember around the time I told y’all I Am Not Accepting Bae Applications? If you read it then you’ll remember I was actually dating at the time. Before he proposed he wanted to be exclusive he felt the need to tell me about … Continue reading Hit It and Quit It List?

Nicole Sade'November 8, 2021

Trouble Keeps Finding Me

Brielle I can’t believe I let these bitches talk me into going to the club as if my face wasn’t just all over Facebook a few months ago for being a hoe and having an abortion. The girls and I decided to hit up this new spot downtown that’s been heavily advertised on social media. It was pretty cool and laid back but it was … Continue reading Trouble Keeps Finding Me

Nicole Sade'April 30, 2020April 30, 2020

When Dating Gets Real

I kinda want to admit that one of the most wonderful and frustrating parts of dating is that you never really know where things can go with someone. You have to start every date with an open mind to the possibility of… anything can happen. Eventually, down the line, you could start catching feelings for someone, which can cause you to be open to whatever with … Continue reading When Dating Gets Real

Nicole Sade'January 12, 2020January 28, 20231 Comment

Stop Comparing Your Relationship to Couples on Social Media

We’ve all been there. You’re scrolling Instagram to kill time and someone just posted a gorgeous couples pic. Whether it’s a fun weekend activity, highlights from a past vacation, or a dramatic anniversary post, it racked up a ton of likes, and you see thousands of people including your friends commenting “goals” and loving emojis. I mean there is nothing wrong with seeing couples … Continue reading Stop Comparing Your Relationship to Couples on Social Media

Nicole Sade'November 10, 2019November 10, 20191 Comment

Why does he act like my boyfriend, but he doesn’t want a relationship?

He takes you out on dates, does thoughtful things for you, takes you around his friends and family, y’all have sex, oh and lets not forget how he hints about things he’d like to do in the future with you. He’s kind, respects your boundaries, and you have great chemistry. You know he’s not seeing other people. And yet … he “doesn’t want a … Continue reading Why does he act like my boyfriend, but he doesn’t want a relationship?

Nicole Sade'November 2, 2019November 3, 20192 Comments

About Nicole Sade’

Hey I’m Nicole Sade’! Welcome to my blog! I’m super excited to have you here! Just a little about me… I’m an author, blogger, Sports and Entertainment Publicist. My writing career started about five years ago while I was in college, working a full time job, and dealing with what I thought was a serious relationship. After becoming worn out and stressed I began to … Continue reading About Nicole Sade’

Nicole Sade'November 1, 2019November 1, 2019

How Do You Tell a Friend you want to be More than Friends

Why haven’t you taken your friendship to the next level?Are you willing to take the risk? It is believed that the most relationships started out as friendships. But jumping from the friend-zone to the love-zone can be risky when you don’t know if your friend wants to be more than friends, or if a romantic relationship will even work out. Just show action through how you feel. This doesn’t … Continue reading How Do You Tell a Friend you want to be More than Friends

Nicole Sade'November 3, 2017

If he Loves You… Why is he Sleeping With Your Friend??

“I see you and your bitch worked everything out. I hope yall be happy together.” I got up and started to pace the room trying to play it cool but clearly my body language and face expressions said different. “What the hell wrong with you? That 1800 kicked in?” Kyla laughed. “Hell naw I’m finna kick a bitch face in. “What the hell just happen?” … Continue reading If he Loves You… Why is he Sleeping With Your Friend??

Nicole Sade'October 6, 2017