How to Survive Cuffing Season While You’re Single AF

We are now at the start of “cuffing season.” Urban Dictionary defines “cuffing” as the moment when “people who would normally rather be single or promiscuous find themselves, along with the rest of the world, desiring to be tied down by a serious relationship.” In other words cuffing season is the act of trying to be boo’d up! Unfortunately, you’re probably single just like me … Continue reading How to Survive Cuffing Season While You’re Single AF

Nicole Sade'October 8, 2020October 8, 20201 Comment

She Didn’t Steal Him From You

Ladies there is no such thing as Ms.Steal your man. If your ex has left you for someone else, I’m almost positive that felt like a slap in the face. Yes there are women who wants a good looking man who can provide, protect and a whole lot more. One of the main requirements now is that some women prefer that he’s already TAKEN. If … Continue reading She Didn’t Steal Him From You

Nicole Sade'September 7, 2020October 7, 2020

Let Him Chase You!

Ladies when did it become ok for us to chase men? Lets take several steps back and let them do the chasing. Men have become too comfortable with reaping the benefits of all of our hard work. After all of our effort… what’s left for them to do? If you chase him in the beginning you’ll most likely have to chase him during the course … Continue reading Let Him Chase You!

Nicole Sade'August 15, 2020August 15, 20202 Comments

Do Your Own Research

Dating is very different than it was about 10 or 15 years ago. Thanks to the Internet and social media, it’s easier to get to know someone without actually knowing them — which can come in handy when you’re gearing up to go on a first date with someone new or maybe you’ve been on a date and you’re still getting to know … Continue reading Do Your Own Research

Nicole Sade'March 1, 2020March 1, 20201 Comment

When Dating Gets Real

I kinda want to admit that one of the most wonderful and frustrating parts of dating is that you never really know where things can go with someone. You have to start every date with an open mind to the possibility of… anything can happen. Eventually, down the line, you could start catching feelings for someone, which can cause you to be open to whatever with … Continue reading When Dating Gets Real

Nicole Sade'January 12, 2020January 28, 20231 Comment

Winter Date Ideas

Its the most romantic time of the year. Many of us complain about the cold weather but you definitely shouldn’t let the weather hinder your fun. It can be tempting to avoid the hassle of leaving the house, but on balmy days, an outdoor loving and fun experience is worth it. What makes a date special is a combination of what you do together … Continue reading Winter Date Ideas

Nicole Sade'December 2, 2019December 2, 2019

Who Are You Investing Your Time In

When it comes to dealing with certain people, we have a habit of sticking around way longer than we should. If you get a mixed signal about someone and you feel they aren’t going to be loyal or give you what you want or need, go ahead and remove yourself from the situation ASAP. Sad to say the signs are there early on but we … Continue reading Who Are You Investing Your Time In

Nicole Sade'November 24, 2019November 24, 20192 Comments

Why does he act like my boyfriend, but he doesn’t want a relationship?

He takes you out on dates, does thoughtful things for you, takes you around his friends and family, y’all have sex, oh and lets not forget how he hints about things he’d like to do in the future with you. He’s kind, respects your boundaries, and you have great chemistry. You know he’s not seeing other people. And yet … he “doesn’t want a … Continue reading Why does he act like my boyfriend, but he doesn’t want a relationship?

Nicole Sade'November 2, 2019November 3, 20192 Comments

My Boyfriend Since High School Has a Baby on The Way by Someone Else

Dear Readers of Nicole Sade’, I met Irving, the love of my life in 2008 at a music festival near Downtown Birmingham. After meeting, we talked on the phone day and night laughing and joking as friends. That friendship soon turned into a relationship. Irving and I have been together since high school. He took me on my first date, we had our … Continue reading My Boyfriend Since High School Has a Baby on The Way by Someone Else

Nicole Sade'October 2, 2019October 2, 2019

WAYS TO GET OVER THAT F*** BOY

Sis….We all know that a breakup is one of the worst experiences ever. Especially if you loved him! Whether you saw it coming or not the agony is real. Just know that nothing can keep you from a happier future than a lingering relationship wound. It doesn’t really matter what the circumstances were, or who was right and who was wrong. The bottom line … Continue reading WAYS TO GET OVER THAT F*** BOY

Nicole Sade'September 3, 2019September 3, 2019